Day 1 Praying for my car to arrive faster
No calls from the dealer yet. Im still hoping that it can arrive before my birthday.
Im having Company Law Examination later. HAAAA. Things gonna be just fine.
Just a few days more to FREEDOM. okay i will say a SHORT BREAK! =)
Jojo
Monday, 23 February 2009
Sunday, 22 February 2009
TRUST is a very important factor for all relationships. When trust is broken, it is the end of the relationship. Lack of trust leads to suspicion, suspicion generates anger, anger causes enmity and enmity may result in separation. A telephone operator told me that one day she received a phone call. She answered, "Public Utilities Board." There was silence. She repeated, "PUB." There was still no answer. When she was going to cut off the line, she Heard a lady's voice, "Oh, so this is PUB.Sorry , I got the number from my Husband's pocket but I do not know whose number it is. Without mutual trust, just imagine what will happen to the couple if the telephone operator answered with just "hello" instead of "PUB".
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NO POINTING OF FINGERS A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?" The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you." We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves. If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.
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CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS? A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television." There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband ,because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
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NO OVERPOWERING Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another,or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character." [江山易改, 本性难移] It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness. It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..
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RIGHT SPEECH There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other,we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party. A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted,"Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me.Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered ,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you." Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.
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BE PATIENT This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital. Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, " Daddy,I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went home & committed suicide. Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever
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NO POINTING OF FINGERS A man asked his father-in-law, "Many people praised you for a successful marriage. Could you please share with me your secret?" The father-in-law answered in a smile, "Never criticize your wife for her shortcomings or when she does something wrong. Always bear in mind that because of her shortcomings and weaknesses, she could not find a better husband than you." We all look forward to being loved and respected. Many people are afraid of losing face. Generally, when a person makes a mistake, he would look around to find a scapegoat to point the finger at. This is the start of a war. We should always remember that when we point one finger at a person, the other four fingers are pointing at ourselves. If we forgive the others, others will ignore our mistake too.
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CREATING PERFECT RELATIONSHIPS? A person visited the government matchmaker for marriage, SDU, and requested "I am looking for a spouse. Please help me to find a suitable one." The SDU officer said, "Your requirements, please." "Oh, good looking, polite, humorous , sporty, knowledgeable, good in singing and dancing. Willing to accompany me the whole day at home during my leisure hour, if I don't go out. Telling me interesting stories when I need companion for conversation and be silent when I want to rest." The officer listened carefully and replied, "I understand you need television." There is a saying that a perfect match can only be found between a blind wife and a deaf husband ,because the blind wife cannot see the faults of the husband and the deaf husband cannot hear the nagging of the wife. Many couples are blind and deaf at the courting stage and dream of perpetual perfect relationship. Unfortunately, when the excitement of love wears off, they wake up and discover that marriage is not a bed of roses. The nightmare begins.
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NO OVERPOWERING Many relationships fail because one party tries to overpower another,or demands too much. People in love tend to think that love will conquer all and their spouses will change the bad habits after marriage. Actually, this is not the case. There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "It is easier to reshape a mountain or a river than a person's character." [江山易改, 本性难移] It is not easy to change. Thus, having high expectation on changing the spouse character will cause disappointment and unpleasantness. It would be less painful to change ourselves and lower our expectations..
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RIGHT SPEECH There is a Chinese saying which carries the meaning that "A speech will either prosper or ruin a nation." Many relationships break off because of wrong speech. When a couple is too close with each other,we always forget mutual respect and courtesy. We may say anything without considering if it would hurt the other party. A friend and her millionaire husband visited their construction site. A worker who wore a helmet saw her and shouted,"Hi, Emily! Remember me? We used to date in the secondary school." On the way home, her millionaire husband teased her, "Luckily you married me.Otherwise you will be the wife of a construction worker." She answered ,"You should appreciate that you married me. Otherwise, he will be the millionaire and not you." Frequently exchanging these remarks plants the seed for a bad relationship. It's like a broken egg - cannot be reversed.
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BE PATIENT This is a true story which happened in the States. A man came out of his home to admire his new truck. To his puzzlement, his three-year-old son was happily hammering dents into the shiny paint of the truck. The man ran to his son, knocked him away, hammered the little boy's hands into pulp as punishment. When the father calmed down, he rushed his son to the hospital. Although the doctor tried desperately to save the crushed bones, he finally had to amputate the fingers from both the boy's hands. When the boy woke up from the surgery & saw his bandaged stubs, he innocently said, " Daddy,I'm sorry about your truck." Then he asked, "but when are my fingers going to grow back?" The father went home & committed suicide. Think about this story the next time someone steps on your feet or u wish to take revenge. Think first before u lose your patience with someone u love. Trucks can be repaired.. Broken bones & hurt feelings often can't. Too often we fail to recognize the difference between the person and the performance. We forget that forgiveness is greater than revenge. People make mistakes. We are allowed to make mistakes. But the actions we take while in a rage will haunt us forever
Thursday, 19 February 2009
Its my life
My all time favourite. Unplugged version.
This ain't a song for the broken-hearted
No silent prayer for the faith-departed
I ain't gonna be just a face in the crowd
You're gonna hear my voice
When I shout it out loud
Chorus:
It's my life
It's now or never
I ain't gonna live forever
I just want to live while I'm alive
(It's my life)
My heart is like an open highway
Like Frankie said
I did it my way
I just wanna live while I'm alive
It's my life
This is for the ones who stood their ground
For Tommy and Gina who never backed down
Tomorrow's getting harder make no mistake
Luck ain't even lucky
Got to make your own breaks
Chorus:
It's my life
And it's now or never
I ain't gonna live forever
I just want to live while I'm alive
(It's my life)
My heart is like an open highway
Like Frankie said
I did it my way
I just want to live while I'm alive
'Cause it's my life
Better stand tall when they're calling you out
Don't bend, don't break, hell, don't back down
Chorus:
It's my life
And it's now or never
'Cause I ain't gonna live forever
I just want to live while I'm alive
(It's my life)
My heart is like an open highway
Like Frankie said
I did it my way
I just want to live while I'm alive
Chorus:
It's my life
And it's now or never
'Cause I ain't gonna live forever
I just want to live while I'm alive
(It's my life)
My heart is like an open highway
Like Frankie said
I did it my way
I just want to live while I'm alive
'Cause it's my life
Dream
I had a dream last night.
Dreamt of Betrayer who let me down
Dreamt of Being caught in helpless situation
Dreamt of Kind soul who pull me up
Thats the end. Like what i've expected in reality.
It will come true. In fact, its already half way there.
So,
I wake up in the morning with 100% of confidence.
To live strong and to be the very best.
Setback is a learning lesson.
I wont even think about you.
Coz i realised i had enough.
Jojo
Dreamt of Betrayer who let me down
Dreamt of Being caught in helpless situation
Dreamt of Kind soul who pull me up
Thats the end. Like what i've expected in reality.
It will come true. In fact, its already half way there.
So,
I wake up in the morning with 100% of confidence.
To live strong and to be the very best.
Setback is a learning lesson.
I wont even think about you.
Coz i realised i had enough.
Jojo
Wednesday, 18 February 2009
KARMA
U set yourself free this time round
Things just aint as simple as how it seem.
U have been through the walks of life and came across all kinds of people in the world. Many have to wore their mask when they are out while very little number of them is behaving like themselves.
Whats with all the pretentious?
Why do you have to present yourself as one of the best soul ON PURPOSE?
Are you trying too hard till you fall apart?
Why cheat on your girlfriend/boyfriend when she/he is always there for you?
Who give u all the surprises?
Who give u special treatment?
Who help you along the way?
Who talks sense to you to help u understand whats best for you?
Its the one thats with you for YEARS.
U took their youth and happiest day away.
But you throw them away without much thought.
Why hurt them emotionally and physically?
What goes around comes around.
Arent you afraid of karma?
Jojo
Things just aint as simple as how it seem.
U have been through the walks of life and came across all kinds of people in the world. Many have to wore their mask when they are out while very little number of them is behaving like themselves.
Whats with all the pretentious?
Why do you have to present yourself as one of the best soul ON PURPOSE?
Are you trying too hard till you fall apart?
Why cheat on your girlfriend/boyfriend when she/he is always there for you?
Who give u all the surprises?
Who give u special treatment?
Who help you along the way?
Who talks sense to you to help u understand whats best for you?
Its the one thats with you for YEARS.
U took their youth and happiest day away.
But you throw them away without much thought.
Why hurt them emotionally and physically?
What goes around comes around.
Arent you afraid of karma?
Jojo
Monday, 16 February 2009
Die you people
When you lost something
U gain something
Believe it anot.
The smokey air is unbearable but i insist to go for a brisk walk.
Will the ignorant farmers stop burning the forest?
We are saving the earth not killing the earth.
IF the earth die. WE DIE TOO.
Hopeless creature. Human? you're not even fit into it!
Likewise for the smokers. U guys are killing everyone around you
And im pretty sure that the first to go to UR GOD gonna be your family members
Up to the Van and sent for cremation at Mandai
Jojo
P/s: Things doesnt matter anymore.
U gain something
Believe it anot.
The smokey air is unbearable but i insist to go for a brisk walk.
Will the ignorant farmers stop burning the forest?
We are saving the earth not killing the earth.
IF the earth die. WE DIE TOO.
Hopeless creature. Human? you're not even fit into it!
Likewise for the smokers. U guys are killing everyone around you
And im pretty sure that the first to go to UR GOD gonna be your family members
Up to the Van and sent for cremation at Mandai
Jojo
P/s: Things doesnt matter anymore.
Saturday, 14 February 2009
Bf
Okay. Ignore the previous post.
Things were opposite today. And im content with what we had
Catched the curious case of benjamin button.quite meaningful and both me and him kind of like it.
Now. I shall sleep early and study more tomorrow.
Jojo
You make me happy today.Thanks Bf
Things were opposite today. And im content with what we had
Catched the curious case of benjamin button.quite meaningful and both me and him kind of like it.
Now. I shall sleep early and study more tomorrow.
Jojo
You make me happy today.Thanks Bf
Lousy someone
Suddenly, Life gets suspicious
Because someone spreaded some stuffs to my ears
Lack of evidences
Yet still lack of trust
It aint feel good to suspect that particular someone
I felt that things might ended up in a typical way
Hanging on is more like to be waiting for that someone to cheat on you
His assurance doesnt seem convincing at all
But anyway, I dont think im gonna care. Just cant wait for the car to arrive so that i can drive to my own world and have lotsa fun. Its okay to lose all your love just not your money and materials.
Maybe one day someone might change my mind. God knows.
I need a good boy. Any?
Jojo
P/s: SCREW VALENTINE. Spend all ur shit money away to roses. NOOBSHIT.
Because someone spreaded some stuffs to my ears
Lack of evidences
Yet still lack of trust
It aint feel good to suspect that particular someone
I felt that things might ended up in a typical way
Hanging on is more like to be waiting for that someone to cheat on you
His assurance doesnt seem convincing at all
But anyway, I dont think im gonna care. Just cant wait for the car to arrive so that i can drive to my own world and have lotsa fun. Its okay to lose all your love just not your money and materials.
Maybe one day someone might change my mind. God knows.
I need a good boy. Any?
Jojo
P/s: SCREW VALENTINE. Spend all ur shit money away to roses. NOOBSHIT.
Thursday, 12 February 2009
First Car
Its been finalised
The car should be arriving by end of Feb or early March!
My first car. Lancer GLX Sport.
Cant believe its happening to me as well. Thank god.
Im so happy.
Haha..
Today shall be the best day of my life. Weeee..
Jojo
The car should be arriving by end of Feb or early March!
My first car. Lancer GLX Sport.
Cant believe its happening to me as well. Thank god.
Im so happy.
Haha..
Today shall be the best day of my life. Weeee..
Jojo
Sunday, 8 February 2009
Monday, 2 February 2009
VROOM VROOM
Probably this year
When i start working
Im gonna VROOM you down.
It gets irritating when the beginning of the year aint going smooth. Problem arising right after another, Trying to make changes but always hold back by something. I hope to end this shit as soon as possible.Though my mind is full of trouble, BUT at least IM HAPPY.
Was gambling over at abel's house last saturday. ALL THE WAY FROM 10pm to 8am in the morning. I didnt gamble at all! Just a few rounds of Non-Profitable mahjong session and slacked with the others though the day. The guys are friendly and kept talking shit. Especially the curly hair Alvin, Ultimate MEAN but he is speaking the truth somehow.Actually, I was upset over some issues but these GUYS MAKE ME SOOO HAPPY that im starting to Look forward to malacca trip with them.
Jojo
P/S: Emotional are for KIDS. Adult like us just cant be bothered.
When i start working
Im gonna VROOM you down.
It gets irritating when the beginning of the year aint going smooth. Problem arising right after another, Trying to make changes but always hold back by something. I hope to end this shit as soon as possible.Though my mind is full of trouble, BUT at least IM HAPPY.
Was gambling over at abel's house last saturday. ALL THE WAY FROM 10pm to 8am in the morning. I didnt gamble at all! Just a few rounds of Non-Profitable mahjong session and slacked with the others though the day. The guys are friendly and kept talking shit. Especially the curly hair Alvin, Ultimate MEAN but he is speaking the truth somehow.Actually, I was upset over some issues but these GUYS MAKE ME SOOO HAPPY that im starting to Look forward to malacca trip with them.
Jojo
P/S: Emotional are for KIDS. Adult like us just cant be bothered.
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